Whoever said, “money can't buy happiness” is either poor or wealthy beyond their wildest dreams. The incessant amount of studies by researchers trying to prove money can't buy happiness is simply a result of the researcher's own poverty or unhappiness.
Because they are financially mediocre, it seems researchers are trying to console themselves that it's OK not being wealthy. Sounds harsh, I know. But we can only truly know how rich we can feel until we actually make a lot of money. Otherwise, we're just pontificating.
Generally, researchers have a higher sense of self because they have more educational training. Hence, it tears them up when they see other “lesser beings” make more than them. Meanwhile, those who continue to highlight research stating that money can't buy happiness are trying to justify their own financially unspectacular selves as well!
The Poor And Financially Mediocre Are In Cahoots
You see, the financially mediocre are all in cahoots with each other. They've banded together to proclaim that being middle class regular people is good enough. It probably is good enough for most people, but not for these unsatisfied folks who think they are smarter and better than everyone else!
If being middle class or amongst the poor was good enough, then they'd leave well enough alone and be happy with their financial mediocrity. It's a hard pill to swallow, but swallow they must.
Not everybody can make multiple six figures, live in million dollar houses, and pay cash for luxury automobiles. That's just life and they are trying to bring you down. Don't let them!
The Tricky Rich
On the flip side, you have the super rich who also say, “money can't buy happiness.” They've got all the luxury in the world, with not an ounce of financial worry. Even millionaires can't resist free. But, it must be nice to figure out what to splurge on. And never having to budget during Christmas season. Meanwhile, the poor are just trying to get food on the table.
It must be nice going to $1,000/head charity galas and paying $200 for front row seats to watch the great Itzhak Perelman play violin. These types of people need to fight for the poor. Otherwise, they'll be deemed as greedy bastards.
The guilt factor the super rich have is enough to say statements such as, “The rich aren't paying their fair share of taxes!” Even if you slapped a 99% marginal income tax rate on Warren Buffet, he still will make more than 99% of the world.
Of course it's OK to raise taxes when you have so much wealth! The super rich will lecture us to stop focusing so much on money and just following our dreams. Don't listen to them for one bit! They're just trying to win you over and pretend to be like one of you.
Definitely Happier With More Money
I don't know about you, but I'm very happy making more than I did 20 years ago. 20 years ago, I was worried whether I could afford getting desert for two on a date. Now, the cost of a seven layer chocolate cake for $8.99 doesn't even cross my mind, only the 5 miles I'll have to run tomorrow instead.
20 years ago, I used to stress more at work because if I ever got fired, my safety net was as think as sheets of wet Kleenex! 10 years later, I was focused on all the good things at work and didn't worry about face time issues and work place politics.
Today, as a fake retiree who hasn't had a job since 2012, I don't worry too much about money at all. The bull market since I left work in 2012 has been so good, my passive investment income now generates enough to take care of a family of five.
20 years ago, I would never be able to consciously buy two round-trip tickets the day before to celebrate Valentines week in Hawaii. Now, I'm excited to go on more last minute adventures because experiences are what matter most!
In fact, I just purchased two round-trip first-class tickets for my parents to come visit us this Thanksgiving. They haven't visited for almost three years due to COVID. Having more money has definitely made me happier because I can afford more conveniences.
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Those With Money Don't Worry About Money Because They Have It
The reason why money does buy happiness is because once you have money, you don't worry about money anymore. All the stress that comes with a lack of money melts away.
You're not pissed at your friends for short-changing the pot during a group meal outing. You don't care if you get a flat tire and have to spend $350 to replace just one. You're just not worried anymore, and that feels fantastic!
Money also allows you to buy fantastic memories. Most would agree that your happiest moments are spent with friends and loved ones. If you have money to travel and be with those you care about, is that not happiness production? It absolutely is.
What about all the fun times you had taking salsa lessons or playing tennis at the club? Not a cheap endeavor, but so fun, and made possible by money.
I got a stupid $110 parking ticket the other day as I was dropping my family off at the science museum. I was gone for just 5 minutes. In the past, I would have been pissed. Now, I think to my self, whatever.
On November 10, 2018, I had to take my son to the ER because he was vomiting due to some virus. The ER visit cost a $100 co-pay. I was glad to easily pay it to get access to treatment. Another example of how money reduces stress in an already stressful situation.
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Money Does Buy Happiness, Especially If You Are Poor
When people start telling you money can't buy happiness, take a good hard look at their finances. They are likely telling you this because they don't have much money themselves.
They haven't tasted the freedom money buys. And if they so happen to be research PhD's, well you can forget about their advice right there. If they are super rich, then you know they are just trying to blend in and not look selfish.
If you want to make more and be happier, I encourage you at least follow my average net worth by age guide. This way, you can outperform the average person and use your money to buy more experiences, things, and happiness.
At the end of the day, money is relative. And the more money you can earn and accumulate, the happier you will likely be.
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Money gives people peace that the world gives. Jesus wants to be in us giving each other peace, that the world cannot give. People being each others money. You want that? I will make one for you. I will ask people to send materials that are be needed to make what you requested. Jesus lets people be people. Each person regulating themselves. That is how it will be in God’s kingdom. God’s unseen kingdom needs to be in us, now.
Ecclesiastes 1:2“Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity.”
King James Version (KJV)
Solomon said that. Rich in earthly wealth are seeing what Solomon saw. The rich have an abundance of a thing that Satan wants to gather unto that being’s vain self. It is money.
Been poor, very poor. Now I don’t need to sweat it. Car needs new brakes, refrigerator and washing machine both just gave up their last, it doesn’t matter. Put it on plastic and pay the plastic off on the next bill. It might not make me happy but it doesn’t make me unhappy either; it simply is.
Kids ask me for a lift to the airport, I hire them an uber rather than spend several hours going back and forth. Eating out (or getting delivery) is strictly a matter of time and calories, money never enters into it. This comes closer to happiness, but it’s not quite there, either.
Money can’t buy happiness? Technically, I think that is a true statement. If you could, the rich would always be happy. You can be unhappy even with money. You certainly can’t pay to avoid untimely deaths, serious injury, or mental problems for you and your loved ones. But if you think you can be happy without money, there is something missing in the area of your personal sense of responsibility and independence, or someone with money is taking care of you (perhaps you are a child?).
Money is a prerequisite for long term happiness.
Sidenote: An awful lot of tv and cinema revolves around people gaining wealth, discovering they don’t like it, and being happy to return to a life of less certain financial security. You see the same thing with old people being made young again, or at least given the opportunity, then choosing being old over rejuvenation because they want to “grow old gracefully.” As if there were anything graceful or dignified about the afflictions of old age. These are entertainments made by wealthy people and their message is for the masses saying: “Be content with your lot, little ones.” Reject these themes as the propaganda they are.
I might have a bit of contradiction here. Money can’t buy happiness but it can buy a
few things that can bring happiness – like getting a spa massage, eating one’s favorite food and traveling the world all of which require money. But when it comes to genuine relationships, that’s what money can never buy.
if it cannot buy happiness then what is it buying when you”re getting a spa massage, eating a favorite food, or traveling the world? depression?
Why people comment on poverty or richness as a state of happiness, material is something it is financial science and the state of happiness is psychology another science, the two states are not correlated, but it is human ignorance.
“an emotionally unintelligent elitest”
Why the name calling?
I continue to think about this issue, and see the responses on this post.
My wife took our daughter’s car in for an inspection sticker. The neighbor’s nanny was with her at the time. The car failed inspection, and while my wife just took the report and planned the visit to a neighborhood mechanic, the nanny looked like she was about to puke. She lives check to check, and any unplanned expense is an issue. For my wife, it was an appointment, planning around getting my kid back to college (with my car), fixing the kid’s car, and arranging a swap after the repair. A bit of annoyance, but not the reaction the neighbor’s nanny had to this.
There is a level that many live at, check to check, where money is a concern that keeps one up at night. When a broken central A/C means sleeping in a puddle for the hot summer days instead of getting it repaired. Where a broken transmission means $XXX added to the credit card you spend 3 years paying down to near zero. Am I happy that I don’t have those minor things to derail my life? Of course. Does all the money in the world cure my mother in law’s dementia? No. But it buys a level a care so when we visit, daily, she’s clean, kept busy, fed, and maintains her dignity. (I can’t be the only guy that loves his mother in law, right?)
Someone growing up in a wealthy household doesn’t know what it’s like to have parents stress over money needed for simple purchases. I agree, it can’t buy you love. But it changes the simple expenses we all hit for “Where to I get $XXX for this” to “another bill to pay”. Don’t underestimate that.
Whoever wrote this is an emotionally unintelligent elitest. I grew up in a wealthy household. I could have any material experience I wanted. But something that I cherished far beyond any of these things were the rare times I had the undivided attention of my hardworking parents. As Paul McCartney said, “I don’t care too much for money. Money can’t buy me love”. And that’s the truth, brother.
This is a crock of bull lol you kidding me right. Money buys you PLEASURE not happiness let’s get that OVERstood please. Im so sick of the masses talking about money when in reality currency holds no true value. People are killing themselves and other people for it and why. Because the government ties a knoose around your neck and let you roam slightly with just a little in your pocket to manage. Money doesn’t even buy you loyalty. You pay for partial loyalty like you do a lawyer or a litagator. As long as the case is swaying in their favor, money right they got your back. You go bellyup, welp sorry can’t no longer bless you with my services lol yall bug me out about this topic. If money bought happiness over privileged children would not talk back to nor harm there parents right or wrong. They would show gratitude for all they have been afforded and blessed with. The congregation and I need for you to go back to the drawing board with this one because fam you ARE the weakest link on this topic if you can equate happiness to something that when you parish you cant take it with you
LMFAO you missed the point As usual idiot. Your parents weren’t wealthy. They had golden handcuffs. That’s not freedom. REAL money is freedom. REAL money works for you. Then those hardworking parents could live off the passive income and do whatever they wanted, had more balance, spent more time with you. Plenty of poor people work hard too and that still sucks. Fake rich. Next.
Financial Sumurai,
Your article is well presented but reveals (to me) precisely what your values are, and what they are not.
Money is apparently your God. Yes, it’s nice to have and alleviates a lot of problems in life, but if you really think about it, overwhelming debt comes from living beyond one’s means: Greed. Remove the issues that lead to debt, and the unhappy elements of life go away. Grateful people don’t think about money being their “Savior” because they have their priorities/values in place.
Furthermore, I have plenty of money. Have had it for a very long time. While it contributes to paying the bills and taking vacations, etc., it also creates problems. Social problems. You mentioned in this article that wealthy people often donate to charities to alleviate guilt, or to avoid appearing as greedy. Are you freaking kidding me? Who are you to deduce what they are thinking? Has the thought occurred to you that wealthy people are human beings too? Did you ever consider that people money have no empathy, or an inability to recognize that not everyone is capable of amassing fortunes? If you will pay attention to your own words, even you are not exempt from creating the very social friction that often comes with being wealthy. Do you think happiness is living within a resentful society? Yes, that is some happiness there/S. It really comes down to values and what makes people happy. If you are ok with simply having money and not worrying about parking tickets, for example, then fine. But that is a very small part of the equation, imo. As so many others have said, happiness is a relative term. What you define as happiness may not be happiness to myself or the next person.
Despite an ad infinitum, philosophical approach to this topic, I shall ask you an objective question: If money makes you happy, then why aren’t you more frugal? Why do not you not value the thing that makes you so happy and free? Money does not grow on trees. I question why you so freely pay tickets and toss your money around without reservation. You claim that you no longer have to worry, but it sounds to me like you are not being very smart with your money. Sounds like a Nouveau Riche approach to me. Easy come, easy go, I suppose, which is something else that money can buy: Ignorance. Sorry for speaking so bluntly or sounding rude, but I am calling it the way I see it.
I was having the same thought while reading this. I did agree that money takes away stress. But overall, I too kept thinking okay he and I have different values.
My financial situation improved after getting married. And I kept thinking wow now I can do this and that but I realized after like 8 months of this sort of lifestyle that you know what, it isn’t making me happy. I value being present, and healthy (as much as I can from whatever is within my control), and creative.
While money helps me buy my grocery so I can try different recipes. The joy does not come from buying the items, it comes from being engaged in an activity.
It comes from when I especially do it for others, help others out etc.
I still believe that having a bit more money will definitely take away stress, but I do not expect happiness from it. I still have to practice my own values and count what counts to be happy.
I was having this discussion with a friend of mine and I will have to disagree with you. Money does not buy happiness but it can enhance or increase happiness. There is a difference between the two. I would define happiness as an intrinsic quality. If you are not inherently a person incapable of feeling happy no amount of money in the world will change that. If you are capable of happiness then sure money and resources can enhance that happiness but happiness and the ability to find joy is an internal quality. I get what you mean about the saying that money doesn’t buy happiness does get used to justify not having much money or to assauge guilt but there is some truth to it.
Money doesn’t buy happiness, trust me I’m depressed as ever and my money is not doing anything for me. There are numerous people that are going through tough mental illnesses stop trying to say money buys happiness because it doesn’t, does it relieve stress? Yess it does. Other than that I’m not happy. Money doesn’t buy happiness, a family does
Well said. What are some of the things that are making you unhappy?
Money frees you that’s It. Are you staring at the money expecting happiness to pop out?
You still need to get help from others and figure out what’s going on. Money just gave you a clean slate. Don’t forget what it’s like to get screwed paycheck to paycheck at a job you hate that takes over half your time.
I completely agree with that. The period in my life where I have been most unhappy was a long stretch of unemployment. I had enough in savings for it not to affect my lifestyle too badly, but it was the feeling of insecurity and being a total outsider that made the experience so rotten. Obviously, unemployment and being poor are closely related, but I believe the social status this confers on one are much more important in determining how one feels about it than the lack of money in itself.
To be honest.
I call bullshit… Only for one reason.
I grew up dirt floor poor.
And I’ll slap the shit out of anyone who tells me money can’t buy happiness.
Money can buy security. And its really hard to be happy when you don’t know where your next meal is coming from.
As the slogan says, all I ask is the chance to *prove* that money can’t make me happy!
As the Beatles sang, ‘money isn’t everything, it’s true, but what it can’t buy, I can’t use”
And as Sam says, one needs a certain level of income to thrive in a large city …. but after that amount (he says $200,000 a year, which is way more than most people even dream of), it’s all gravy, or a distraction.
And without health, the money is less relevant – but better to be sick and rich than sick and poor.
Some people have a talent for unhappiness whatever their income, and some the opposite. But freedom from worry has a value – and people have ‘worry points’ at different places.
In sum: good column! I doubt that researchers deliberately skew results of surveys to make themselves feel better, but otherwise, lots of valid points here.
Don’t jump off the Rails son
Well… Having lived in areas throughout the world of extreme poverty, I’ve had the opportunity to meet some incredible people that are extremely happy even though they live in shacks.
Of course, happiness is subjective, and due to the amount of variable, can’t exactly be quantified through analysis. Here are my rules on happiness:
– We choose to be happy, the world doesn’t choose for us.
– The choices we make every day have a direct impact on our happiness.
– Happiness is derived from spending time with those we love
Can more money play a part? Absolutely! But it isn’t the end-all.
Fun post! The comment I’d like to add is this one, which for me gets straight to the heart of the matter: having lived a life of tremendous highs and also tremendous lows, the famous American jazz singer Billie Holliday was once asked in an interview whether or not she believed that money could buy happiness. Her reply [and I paraphrase], was “I’ve been depressed rich, and I’ve been depressed poor. Let me tell you, depressed rich is better.”
Someone finally have the courage to speak the truth. I find myself nodding my head and agreeing with each sentence you say. People naturally jump to the chance of saying “money doesn’t buy you happiness, because what if you’re sick” or they give examples of the proverty stricken people living in huts without food smiling because they’re surrounded with people they love. And then, there are people who of course say diamonds and fancy corvettes may only buy you temporary happiness, if any. First, let me tackle the last statement. I completely agree. As a male, diamonds don’t do a thing for me, but why do we AUTOMATICALLY assume money=diamonds + fancy cars= happiness?? For me, money makes me happy because of SECURITY. I don’t care for fancy cars or crappy diamonds, but I want to be carefree, worry-free and know that I don’t have to punch in on a time clock for my next paycheck and worry about what my boss thinks of me. I have the CHOICE to do what I want to do, not because I’m forced to secure some financial stability and know that I have money to pay rent or I’ll be out in the cold streets. Money allows me to wake up casually and any time I please travel to see my family and friends or that secret crush I’ve been chatting online with whom I get butterflies and now I can turn that to a reality. And no, I don’t need a freaking private jet, I can just take a normal airplane to go, but 1st class preferable and yes…..this cost money. How about money can’t buy you happiness if you’re sick?? I’m so tired of that saying. So you mean to tell me that you’d rather be sick and poor, because without money, you’re definitely getting little or no care. Nobody said money had the magic to raise you from the dead but why do people correlate money with illness, poor people get ill too, in fact much more so, so poor people with illness will experience more more unhappiness than a sick rich person. I can tell you clearly from my experience that having more money makes me happy. HOWEVER, I now believe there is a quantitative value. Say what? What I mean is if you say are you happier now that I give you a million dollars? My answer would be somewhat of course, but not for too long. Why, because a million dollars is not enough to buy you security for the rest of your life. It may get you through 10 years, but you’ll still be worried about not having enough for your later years. So everyone has a different “number”. So having money is NOT enough to make you “happy”, but having ENOUGH KNOWING that you’ll live a life that money will NEVER be an issue to do anything you want is what happiness is. Say if I had even 100 million, I’d be happy forever. I spend 1/3 of it to buy my absolute dream house, 1/3 invested in bonds, dividend stocks, REITS and real estate to collect rent to replenish my spending habits and 1/3 is cash just for spending and emergencies. So now, I can travel where I want, when I want, eat whatever I wish, date casually and spend time and money on the person I love and have the extra time to know her, meet with family and friends and do everything without a care in the world. Now, I’m truly happy.
Jarek, totally agree with your point. In the US, however, health care is rationed by the ability to pay, so poor people get less healthcare of poorer quality, than the wealthy. It’s the one thing corporations do to scare you into doing what they want to retain your job – ration the healthcare. You’re never secure unless you have your healthcare resolved, and believe me, you can be young, vigorous and healthy one day, and have the sky fall on you the next.
It’s the biggest threat to America and it’s not being addressed in a serious way by the elected `leadership’
Jarek, totally agree with your point. In the US, however, health care is rationed by the ability to pay, so poor people get less healthcare and what they receive is of poorer quality, than the wealthy. It’s the one thing corporations do to scare you into doing what they want to retain your job – ration the healthcare. You’re never secure unless you have your healthcare resolved, and believe me, you can be young, vigorous and healthy one day, and have the sky fall on you the next.
It’s the biggest threat to America and it’s not being addressed in a serious way by the elected `leadership’
Trust me: money DOES make all the people on both sides of my family happier. I chose the arts so make a SHIT wage & the bankers in the family think I’m daft. Advice: do the arts in your spare time but choose a career or interests that is all about WEALTH. Wealth is better.
I had a friend tell me “There are only 2 things worse than being poor and that is SICK and DEAD”. I agree.
Money can’t buy happiness because there’s no such thing as happiness. It’s human nature to never be satisfied, always striving for bigger and better things. That, right there, is the meaning of life. The moment one becomes perfectly content, life becomes fundamentally pointless.
this article disregards scientific studies on the subject but than makes its own conclusions or hypothesis? I live in Australia and have been in poor countries. I have seen the poor be very happy. This is because money really has nothing to do with happiness, what does however have to do with happiness is human relationships. In poor countries in Africa for example, many of the poor have very intimate relationships, large families, large support networks, because being poor is widespread, a part of life. In the US a homeless man may have no one. People look at this and think ‘wow i would hate to be him, that’s depressing’. But his unhappiness doesn’t stand from lack of material wealth but his social isolation and ostracism from his lack of material wealth. Hundreds walk past him every day not paying attention, in short people rather not identify with him. The rich can also feel isolated and lonely, take for instance Robin Williams who suffered depression. He was very wealthy but this impacted negatively on his relationships because most his relationships were superficial, and he was surrounded by people, but not ones who he felt were genuine, bit instead felt that they were there for personal gain.
Don’t conflate homelessness with lack of money. in Australia, for example, the Aboriginals are marginalized and basically kept on poor-quality reservations with few opportunities to succeed – despite some amount of government support. They do strive to keep their family units intact and keep up their traditions, despite massive societal pressure to change.
In the US, homelessness is often associated with mental illness and drug addiction, especially in the case of the ‘I would hate to be him’ that you describe. Giving more money to that person probably doesn’t get him off the street permanently. Giving him the right meds to control his mental illness, helping him get clean and sober can reduce the likelihood he’ll ever get on the street.
As for the general question of money buying happiness – most lottery winners blow through the money they get and return to their pre-wealth lifestyles; fantasy-amounts of money don’t help them gain happiness. Happiness comes from within. Money only helps. Being poor isn’t just lack of money – it’s a lifestyle choice, perhaps unconscious, but nevertheless one you’ve got to struggle to change. Change is always hard.
Socrates would agree with some of what you say Montana, he died poor yet considered himself rich not of material possessions but of things more valuable. At his trial, before he was to led to jail and the death penalty, he even asked his friends to look after his sons to make sure that they always put goodness above money or other earthly trappings.
As a practical matter though, I have seen many poor people suffer for lack of money. They can’t send their kids to decent schools. They can’t participate in many different activities, or take up expensive hobbies. They can’t get the best healthcare. Money problems stress many marriages to the point of divorce. The woes of poverty are nearly endless.
Can money buy happiness? It certainly eliminates the woes of poverty which are an evil, and the negation of an evil is a good. Money may create evils in one’s life, but when this happens it is the fault of the person and not the money. Therefore I have to conclude that money can indeed buy some measure of happiness simply from the elimination of the woes of poverty.
“Rich or poor – it’s better to have money.” – My Dad. Not sure if it was original or not, doesn’t matter. Good words to live by.
While your slant in this article crying conspirecy (it is at best a mass unconcious one anyway) is pretty sketchy, everything else is a good point. Speaking as someone who lives on very little a month, that also (willingly) practices minimalism and naturism and i live pretty lavishly and comfortably on my below poverty line income, coming into an extra $2000 (thats more than 2 months income) enables me to directly buy hapiness (from the experiences money enables one to buy): more delicious and highly scrutinized food(fresher, higher quality, more natural, organic, verified humane kills, hunting rights, what have you, etc); ability to afford to give money to those who need it more (by employig their service or thanking them well for it) than I that i personally encounter, experience, and interact with; not have to worry about if clothes will fit that i can’t return(i can just toss them if they don’t and not feel a loss); not stressed about bills or if keeping my house 1 degree cooler will break the bank, so i can be cool in the summer and thus happy (sleeping in heat directly makes me unhappy).
Yes money is just “trust” in “imaginary value” between people (though the world econemy in general has been stated to have become its on concious entity seperate from human influence, that is directly influencing humans….it is still “trust” in the “value” this entity and ourselves place on things “money buys” even if its no longer between humans’ own kind/tribes) , but that alone means it buys hapines (if you are capable of attributing your own personal value to things, then money can enable you to have it).
Perhaps what those poor and super wealthy mean to say is “The best things in life are free” (true, but realistically speaking EVERYTHING is absolutely free, if you have the strength of will, so the phrase is really a clever remark, meant to make people think) or “What specifically makes me happy I can’t buy with money”
For instance an ultra wealthy person cannot buy a friend, and they do not know if the people that might be their friend really are or if they are just there for the money (as we all love to lavish our friends whenever we can!) unless they lose it all or some really unlikely event occurs to demonstrate it, but even then they will be unsure if the wealth was always present (though an obvious sign might be refusely to let you ever spend money in their presence regardless of their income level… But you’d not be being their friend if you listened to that request and wern’t trampling all over that line!).
Conversely (self aware/by choice) Poor people are usually extremely happy as they understand all the pleasures of life are not blocked or prevented by not having money.
For example: Food = Hapiness
How much food? How much do you need to be happy? Will eating more than that amount add any additional hapiness?(the answer to that one is usually no)
Can you be happy on less?(usually as ithe body is adaptable)
Food can be attained without money entirely, and with knowledge and skill both of which do not cost money any dish or type of food can be made. But wih money you can obtain the former very easily (usually) or hirer said free liver with skill to make it for you.
Money essentially makes obtaining hapiness “less stressful” as well (though certain minded people especially considerate people, neurotic people, and conservative people (or guilt/shame/useless feeling people) might or would find wealth extremely burdensome and stressful for various reasons, but all invariably did not earn it with their hard work). Hapiness is also little things and impacted by stress, money can buy many of these little things as well, and also directly reduce stress (calming affect/effect of physically touching money) as well as indirectlu reduce it. I know being in slightly less pain than usual just for a few hours brings a world of hapiness, and money can buy a massage or dip in a hot springs, etc directly buying he experience.
Perhaps people think money can’t buy happiness because of this: The best things in life are free; but not everything that is free can be bought. And because money can’t directly buy certain specific things for a person they assume it can’t buy hapiness at all.
I think maybe for some people it really can’t (because they already have it, and they have it for free), but most human temperments can directly buy hapiness with money if they know themselves well enough.
I would like me and my brother to make $100,000-$150,000 per year between both of us. I feel like that would be a pretty comfortable living for two people. We live in Kansas.
A large percentage of the money in the world contributes to the ecological collapse the world is now facing (resource depletion, species extinction, climate change, etc.). Our growth economy, consumerism, waste and desire for material wealth are all guilty contributors. Getting our basic needs met and having a special treat once in a while are great, but so many in this country keep wanting more. Let’s try to enjoy the simple, natural pleasures of life that don’t contribute to our extinction!
Troy,
You cannot change human nature. People want more money; always have and always will. As for myself, all I want is to enjoy the simple, natural pleasures that Al Gore enjoys!
Actually you can change human nature(and technically it changes all the time!)! But it takes Power, and money is the currently the best route to power, unless you have the time to cultivate change in people on a person by person basis (which will still likely cost you some money in some cases as the catalyst is often not easy to come by). It takes a lot of money/power to mass change human nature however, and there is no real hapiness to be found in manipulating human nature in such a manner, so it is failing to buy hapiness at that point.
Money does make you happy in this age where money is the currency of everything. Money is like energy, it can be used to do things or get things done. If you are in a place where money has no value then, money does not make you happy. It’s just a piece of paper. Ignorance and stupidity can also make you happy :)