Rejecting Reasons Not To Retire Early And Live Your Dreams

Since writing, The Dark Side Of Early Retirement, I've sometimes wondered whether writing about early retirement hurts society and the very people who decide to leave the work force early. Being able to do what you want when you want sounds great. But is it healthy? Let's look at all the reasons not to retire early and reject them all.

Imagine going to medical school until age 30, paying all that tuition, and then deciding you want to retire 12 years later. Is that nuts? Or does it not matter if you've earned enough to comfortably cover all your expenses for decades? Here's a guest post from an actual doctor who wants to call it quits. Perhaps if he's allowed to retire early, so can we all! – Sam

Rejecting Reasons Not To Retire Early And Live Your Dreams

Hello, fellow samurai! I am the Physician on FIRE, a 41-year old anesthesiologist with an 11-year career under my belt. A couple years ago, I realized that early retirement was a distinct possibility for my family and me, and I’ve been trying to talk myself out of it ever since. I’ve had zero luck thus far.

It’s not that I don’t have a good job. In many ways, it’s great, actually. I do work some crazy hours, but I’m rewarded with ample time off. The job can be stressful, but I’m compensated quite well. Among the jobs with six-figure salaries, being a physician is rather highly esteemed. Indeed, there are several aspects of this job that I will miss if I follow through with plans to retire early.

Currently, I'm sitting on a nest egg equal to nearly 30x our typical annual spending of $60,000 to $70,000 in a low cost of living area. Add in the cost of health insurance and we might have closer to 26x or 27x, but barring a market meltdown, I'm on track to have about 36x in 18 months, an amount that will qualify us to be financially free.

These are the goal numbers I'd like to achieve or at least be rapidly approaching prior to walking away from my full time job:

  • $1,500,000 between a taxable account and 457(b)
  • $1,000,000 between Roth IRAs and 401(k)
  • $250,000 in our Donor Advised Fund
  • $200,000 between two 529 Plans

If we were to sell both our primary and second home, we'd just about be there today, but then we'd have no place to live. The most likely scenario I foresee is selling our primary home, keeping our second home as a base, and doing some extensive traveling as a family. We have dreams of touring the nation in a motorhome, living a true Spanish immersion experience in a foreign land, and perhaps doing some globetrotting before our boys are of high school age.

Why would a physician want to retire early? I can't speak for all of us, but an extensive survey from 2012 indicated that over 60% of physicians would retire today if they had the means. I've expounded on my rationale, which include more time for family, sleep, pursuing interests outside of medicine, and perhaps most importantly) simply because I can.

But that doesn't mean I should. Let’s see if I can talk myself out of this.

Reasons Not to Retire Early

I can come up with all kinds of reasons not to retire early. This should be easy!

  1. You’re so young.
  2. You’ll be bored.
  3. You’re in the prime of your career.
  4. You’re tied to your boys’ school schedule.
  5. You could work part-time or occasionally.
  6. You could work in an outpatient surgery center.
  7. Your stock market holdings could plummet.
  8. You don’t know what the future will bring.

Now that we know all the reasons to retire early. Let's reject the reasons not to retire early.

Rejecting the reasons not to retire early #1: You’re so young.

Why, thank you, that’s very kind of you to say. The mylar balloons I received on my 40th birthday disagree, but I do feel young at 41. I could work another 20 to 25 years before reaching a more standard retirement age.

Isn’t youth a great reason to retire (if you can afford it)? I’ve got my health, and will have more time to exercise and prepare healthy meals if I’m not working, perhaps increasing the number of healthy years in my future. My boys are home with us for another 10 to 12 years. Wouldn’t it be nice to stop missing family dinners and boys’ activities due to work, and have my weekends free to play?

Reasons to retire early
So many Legos, so little time.

As a doctor, I see all sorts of ailments and injuries that can dramatically alter one’s lifestyle and longevity. By retiring young, I give myself a much higher likelihood of enjoying many good years before the effects of aging slow me down or I am struck by cancer or car, or whatever it is that will eventually strike me down. Sorry, but reason #1 is rejected.

Rejecting the reasons not to retire early #2: You’ll be bored.

I’m not particularly good at sitting still, and boredom is pretty much a foreign concept. My wife is convinced that I invent things that need to be done; when the list grows short, I come up with new ideas to ensure I’ve always got something to work on.

Reasons to retire early - brew more beer
I can always brew more beer.

One day when I was daydreaming about early retirement, I came up with a list of 50 things I’d like to do as an early retiree. I’ll probably come up with 50 more when I actually have the time. So, no, I can’t imagine I’ll be bored. What were those other reasons?

Rejecting the reasons not to retire early #3: You’re in the prime of your career.

Well, that's a fact. I’ve been out of residency training for more than a decade; I have some valuable experience. Some would say that I’m making a real contribution to society. I don’t quite see it that way – it’s more of an exchange with society. I deliver safe, high-quality anesthesia care in exchange for money. It’s more of a transaction than a contribution. Society pays me quite well.

Isn’t that another reason not to retire? The pay? Well, here’s the thing. I reached financial independence based on our current spending about a year and a half ago, and I plan on working about another year and a half. I’m pursuing financial freedom, but I’m essentially trading time for money I don’t need at this point.

Maybe you don’t need the money, but you could help so many others, right? True. This is a good argument for working 52 80-hour workweeks every year for another forty years. I’m satisfying the “help others” urge by adding to our donor advised funds while working. When I retire, the balance in those accounts should be about 10% or our retirement assets. Reason #3 has been soundly rejected.

Rejecting the reasons not to retire early #4: You’re tied to your boys’ school schedule.

Our boys are enrolled in public schools, and they only get a few weeks off during the school year. When co-workers have kids in school, there is competition for those weeks off. Looking at the school calendar, there are are 16-plus weeks off over the course of the year. In early retirement, I’ll have all those weeks off, too!

There are, of course, alternatives to being tied to a school calendar. The current plan for when I break free is to take a motorhome tour of the U.S. while “road-schooling” our boys for the year. We can learn science in the National Parks.

American history can be covered on the sites the settlements were founded. We can learn about wars fought on our soil right where the battles occurred. Physical education and recess can be combined in a hike up a small mountain or a jog through the forest.

Reasons to retire early - relaxing by the beach
School pool?

My wife recently obtained a substitute teacher’s license, and has been teaching in our boys’ elementary school. With her experience and connections, and a world of online resources, we should have no trouble coming up with a curriculum for the boys, who will be in 3rd and 4th grade when we anticipate beginning our first adventure as early retirees. I’m not the least bit worried about a school schedule. What else you got?

Rejecting the reasons not to retire early #5: You could work part-time or occasionally.

Yes, I could. But again, I’d be working for money I don’t think I need, and doing so would prevent us from being able to take that awesome motorhome tour I just outlined.

I will admit to contemplating both possibilities, though, and I’ve examined the monetary and lifestyle ramifications of both a half-time schedule and one in which I only work a week a month. I keep coming back to the fact that I’d rather work one more year (which I’m currently doing) than two or more years part time.

If motorhome life gets me down, and I yearn for the days of sticking long, sharp needles into people again, I may consider a part time job. Don’t count on it.

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Rejecting the reasons not to retire early #6: You could work in an outpatient surgery center.

This thought comes from the idea that if you don’t love your job, change your job. The worst aspect of my current job is living life tethered to a pager, which is how I spend 20% of my days and nights. I am at the beck and call of every surgeon, nurse, ER doc, and laboring mom-to-be in the hospital. I must remain available at short notice for stretches ranging from 24-hours on a weekday, 72 hours on a normal weekend, and up to 120 hours over a long holiday weekend.

Working in an outpatient surgery center eliminates the burden of call. Outstanding! I actually work in a surgery center as part of my current job. While there are fewer surprises and no pager call, the days can still be challenging. The volume of work can be substantial, and I’m often expected to be in two or three places at once. In general, though, I tend to enjoy my surgery center workdays more than the hospital shifts.

If I do feel a need to earn more money (I shouldn’t), I would definitely consider an outpatient position, perhaps on a part time basis. I wouldn't consider this a reason not to retire, but rather a reasonable backup plan.

Rejecting the reasons not to retire early #7: Your stock market holdings could plummet.

The sky could fall! The sky could fall! Yes, and it probably will to some extent. I’ve had money invested when we’ve seen stocks lose 40% to 50% of their value twice in the last twenty years. I “stayed the course” both times and here we are near record highs in major indices.

S&P 500 historical charge close to record high

Risk can be mitigated with a diverse portfolio, and Sam has many excellent articles on the topic.

By overshooting our monetary target, I anticipate having an initial withdrawal rate under 3%. We’ll have ample room to scale back spending if necessary, but the odds of such a need with an exceptionally low withdrawal rate is terrifically unlikely.

Related: Recommend Allocation Of Stocks And Bonds By Age

Rejecting the reasons not to retire early #8: You don’t know what the future will bring.

Could you be any less specific? I suppose we’re talking about a financial catastrophe that has nothing to do with the stock market. A lawsuit or loss that insurance doesn’t cover, for example. Or maybe something more insidious, like lifestyle creep or a newfound penchant for ultra-fine dining and multimillion dollar homes.

If any of these unlikely scenarios develop, I could consider going back to work to cover the expense. If too much time has passed, it could be difficult to get back into medicine, but I do have marketable skills and will always carry the M.D. behind my name. Consulting jobs exist; sales jobs in medicine can be lucrative. I’ve learned that I rather enjoy writing, and if push came to shove, I’ll bet I could find a way to earn money with this QWERTY keyboard.

The uncertainty of the future only serves to affirm my decision to retire early. I don’t know what lies ahead, so I had best take full advantage of the upcoming years while I have my youth, my health, and my family living with me.

Related: To Get Rich, Practice Predicting The Future

I rest my case.

Having rejected eight pretty good reasons not to retire early, I seem to be running out of excuses. I’m on target to wrap up my full time job in the summer of 2018 (when I’m fully vested in employer contributions to my 401(k)).

I think I'll be ready to pull the trigger unless you can convince me otherwise. Hit me with your best shot. Still think I shouldn't retire early?

– Physician On FIRE

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bill@retirecoast.com
6 years ago

I sold my company when I was 62 as part of my retirement strategy. I could have walked away into the sunset but I wanted to be sure that the company succeeded. I stayed on and managed it for another few years. After decades of looking after employees, I wanted to do something that did not involve managing people.

My point is that going to the office for me was a choice. I enjoyed my business. Some people can just drop into a chair and watch TV all day, that’s not me. I need more. I started a blog and sell real estate to people who want to retire where they can afford it.

Many people can not stay retired. So when I hear they want to leave their career early, I wonder what they will do years later.

James
James
7 years ago

I’m 56. Operated my own biz for about 26 yrs now , I’m in a declining industry but have accumulated over 10mm. 98% of that has already been fully taxed so it’s free and clear of any further taxes. I agree with all your reasons to go ahead and pull the retirement trigger, although I have no children or spouse to factor in.
My biz is dying a slow death but still profitable. Guess I’m afraid to retire when it’s still making money. Would like to sell it but not really a market for it . Hope this doesn’t sound like a ridiculous post. I read anything I can on the subject as I’m hoping it will motivate me to take action. Best of luck to all.

FinancePatriot
7 years ago

Great post, I am also 40 but not a physician. I can’t wait to retire, perhaps within a few months. My wife suggested June 1st, just in time for the kids, and our, summer vacations. What can I say? I just worked extra years in between, instead of going to medical school, married a wife with a decent job who was also a saver and now stays at home, and after five years of doing this, I long to join her to lend her a hand. It’s not fair the majority of domestic duties fall on her while I sweat away in my air conditioned office daily.

Rick
Rick
7 years ago

I know I’m probably out of the norm on this one, but I feel like I simply can’t retire. Even if I had all the money in the world. I struggled mightily with depression for a decade until I started working in the industry I’m in now. I’m not sure I would say I love my jon, but I do like it a great deal and it gives me a strong sense of purpose. I tried everything to combat depression – therapy, medication, diet and exercise – you name it. Some of these things helped but not enough. I have found purpose through work. Maybe it’s just a grand distraction. But it is the distraction I need.

Steven
Steven
7 years ago

POF, I had to look up anesthesiologist to get a little glimpse and besides the high salary and that the highest-paid anesthesiologists work in Lewiston, Maine; Youngstown, Ohio; and Wilmington, Delaware, the below seem like pretty good reason to FIRE.

Stress Level High
Work environment and complexities of the job’s responsibilities

Flexibility Low
Alternative working schedule and work life balance

Also I’ll be honest my first thought was is he the guy/gal giving out laughing gas?!?! Personally I think Reasons Not to Retire Early as you said are some of the exact reasons to get away from the 9-5 as we don’t really know what the future beholds, why not put yourself in the best position that makes you feel comfortable and enjoy life, explore the world, and eradicate the high stress and low flexibility of your job.

Lake Girl
7 years ago

You are in a position to be envied. Grab the bull by the horns and go for it. We get one shot at living an amazing, wonderful life. Go live it! Oh, and keep brewing. Life is even better with home brew!

LiveFrugaLee
7 years ago

Great post! It’s such a tough decision to give up your source of income, even if you are financially set. My wife and I aren’t quite there yet, but my wife just quit her job because we thought it would be better for our son.
My twin brother is currently in his residency for anesthesiology. He just wrote a guest post for my blog about his decision to go to medical school.
livefrugalee.com/how-to-quit-your-day-job-and-pursue-your-passion/
I took a different path of trying to earn as much income as I can with just a bachelor’s degree to try to reach financial independence by the time I’m 35 (in 2020). It’ll be interesting to see where we end up by the time we’re 40 and his income eclipses mine.

DoctorDanny
DoctorDanny
7 years ago

PoF, expanding why NOT to retire early, #7, not knowing what the future brings.
I don’t think you adequately addressed the real possibilities of:
1) hyperinflation. The 70’s were not that long ago.
2) How you will buy healthcare insurance, whose cost will probably continue to rise >10% each year.
3) In the 80’s, the smart investors were buying Japanese stocks. The Nikkei went down and still has not gone back up. Even though we have had some cycles of American stocks dropping then hitting new highs the past 20 years, we may have a prolonged bear market at some point. If you’re a healthy 40, your retirement may last 50 years or longer.
—BTW, this is the same Dr. Danny who argued in one of your columns that I don’t retire because then I would have too much time for engaging in self-destructive behavior (womanizing, drinking, gambling). Your comment was that I sounded like fun, maybe too much fun.

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago
Reply to  DoctorDanny

I remember that comment, Dr. Danny!

The best I can do to safeguard myself from any of the financial disasters that could befall us individually or as a nation is to oversave a bit. That’s ongoing, as I was financially independent before I started writing about FIRE.

By the time I anticipate checking out, I expect to have ~50% more than the recommended 25x and “retire” may not be the best word, since I will continue to write, and as Sam has shown us, blogging and books can be money makers.

Cheers!
-PoF

Poppypbr
Poppypbr
7 years ago

We found that when our children applied to college, it was wise to pursue several schools and see what kind of package the student would get. One son got an annual package that was $5000 better than at any other school. The competition was Cornell, Dartmouth, RPI, UMASS, UVA, UNC, Duke and WPI. Ambitious, huh? Got a great education at WPI. He was a Natl Honor Society student who played varsity basketball and cross country and took every advanced placement course he could fit on his schedule. Hired by a Global Leader in its manufacturing field, today his subordinates are plant managers and department heads. That great education at WPI was worth every penny.

Point is, if you have a son or daughter that is a great student, tell them to shoot high and wide and to hell with the application costs. It can change their life. My $.02

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago
Reply to  Poppypbr

Good for him (and you)! Like your son, I turned down some excellent schools, including Duke, and attended my state university. It’s hard to turn down the alma mater of your father and grandfather when offered a full tuition scholarship. One of the best decisions, financially and otherwise, that I have made.

Cheers!
-PoF

TheHappyPhilosopher
TheHappyPhilosopher
7 years ago

Great one PoF. I would add a couple of things to consider, and want to address a few concerns other have in the comments.

1. Keep going to show kids some kind of work ethic: I completely disagree with this criticism. Kids are way smarter than we give them credit for. They don’t care if you are working or not, they want your time. By cutting back and looking to retire early I am teaching my kids about freedom, time and the real purpose of money. My kids get plenty examples of people that work way too hard for things that don’t make them happy. Ii am teaching them something different.

2. There is a physician shortage and by quitting you make things worse: Maybe, but this is a good thing. The more people that drop out of crappy soul crushing jobs the better. Supply and demand force changes in the marketplace. When doctors are in demand they have more control. When they have control they can shape the job to be sustainable. When this happens we end up with a healthier supply of docs in the long run.

3. Ego. Medicine is different than many other careers. It is more difficult to separate the job from the person. Many of us never really stop being a physician even after the workday is over. For many retiring early is tough on their ego and identity. This is probably the most important reason I can think of actually. From reading your blog for over a year now I know this will not be a problem for you, but others may have difficulty. I think my decision to go part time was in part an attempt to give my ego more time to adjust.

Poppypbr
Poppypbr
7 years ago

Appropriate name . Wisdom to match.

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago

Excellent rebuttals, HP.

I believe there is some value to my kids at least remembering that I had to work some when they were young, but you are correct that an early retirement will give a Dad far more time to teach them about how the world works and the things that matter most.

And I won’t feel guilty about contributing to a doctor shortage. As you say, take away onerous requirements, institute some real tort reform, and you may see more doctors wanting to work full length careers. Docs opting out of the workforce is a symptom of underlying problems.

Best,
-PoF

Vee
Vee
7 years ago

Plus, I always think, I’ve been in do-gooder professions my whole life. And I’m going to stay in them for as long as I can. And when its no longer viable for me or my family, I’m done. You’ve put in your time serving in medicine–some people who could be doctors, never become them. One rarely asks an accountant if he’s wasting his life because he didn’t become a doc. Do good where you can, when you can, then do some other kind of good.

Dynx
Dynx
7 years ago

Reason #9: if you retire who’s gonna move the damn table up and down?
Try to think of other people here for once

Just kidding. I feel the same way you do. Especially being tied to the pager. I’m 2.5 years from retirement accounts vesting and then I have a couple of considerations:
1. Do I want to provide for possible graduate/professional school in addition to undergrad for my kids.
2. How is healthcare going to settle out once the ACA is delt with.
3. Is my wife willing to go back to work even part time if I retire (HA! Ha! Ha!!!!! I can dream can’t I?)

I have a feeling I’ll have “one more year syndrome” for several years but I’m hoping in 2.5 years when I “could” retire the idea of working will be less painful knowing I could walk away if I wanted. It’s just sometimes I want to smash my pager into a little pile of dust.

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago
Reply to  Dynx

As a voice-activated table mover, I take great offense!

Great considerations, too. I’m 16 months from being fully vested, but it’s just an excuse. In June, I’ll be 75% vested in the employer contributions to my 401(k). Working another year to get to 100% garners me another $10,000 or so in the 401(k). The real meat is the $200,000+ that I’ll save for retirement in that one more year.

1. I would like my boys to have some skin in the game. Work hard, earn scholarships, go to public schools, and there just might be $$$ left for grad school.

2. Your guess is as good as mine. That extra $200,000 might come in handy.

3. My wife “retired” at 26. She’s worked harder than me ever since.

Cheers!
-PoF

nganix
nganix
7 years ago

Pof;

Hi there!! I’d say go for it… Why do we work? Essentially to have money,right?
If you have the money to retire–enjoy your life. That’s what I plan to do when my kids are all in college. Retire when I’m 50. 5 more years!!!!
Go for it,doc!!! Like they say,life is short–enjoy it while you can.

SMM
SMM
7 years ago

“I’m not particularly good at sitting still, and boredom is pretty much a foreign concept”

Forget retirement, I sometimes get bored in a long-weekend and am itching to get back to work. Am I crazy? I plan things to do on the weekend that will keep me busy and engaged during the week sometimes. I mean we spend most of the time at work and most of the time we’re at home is usually when we’re sleeping (for those that sleep 7-8 hrs per night).

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago
Reply to  SMM

The S in SMM is for simple, right?

I have never itched to get back to work after any amount of time away. Too many other things I’d like to be doing. I guess that’s a good argument that I might be ready to move on.

Cheers!
-PoF

Jesse
Jesse
7 years ago

PoF,

While on your RV trip across America, why not donate your services to people in need. Alternatively, you could work with Doctors Without Borders and bring your family with you.

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago
Reply to  Jesse

I haven’t ruled out some sort of mission work, although more likely than not, it would be in a different country.

In a way, ~10% of my life’s work will have been for charity, as I plan to have donated $250,000 to our DAF before retiring.

Best,
-PoF

Mr. RIP
Mr. RIP
7 years ago

Amazing post, thanks PoF!
I second every one of your point. I actually think you’re being too cautious and you could pull the trigger right now. You won’t need that much money once early retired and at one point, when kids are no more at home, your spending will surely go down. I guess you’ll settle your spending regime at less than 50k today’s dollar. And your plan assumes you’ll NEVER ever earn a dollar anymore in your life, which is extremely unlikely.

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago
Reply to  Mr. RIP

I suppose you’re right, Mr. RIP. I’m extending my career a bit longer than necessary out of an abundance of caution and perhaps some sense of obligation. Our future plans are a work in progress, but are becoming clearer all the time.

Cheers!
-PoF

Poppypbr
Poppypbr
7 years ago

I retired early at 60 back in 2009 when the economy tanked and I was facing a significant salary cut (40%) to stay on for 3 days a week. Got a lot of flack, gloom and doom by a lot of people but none of them considered the positive lifespan and health effect of regular exercise, better nutrition, much lower stress, and the satisfaction that comes with rejecting unbridled materialism while embracing relationships. Yoga, meditation, walking, running, biking, hiking, light to moderate basic weights for muscle and bone health. Acquired a broader, healthier taste for fish and red wine, filtered water. Haven’t paid any income tax yet net worth has doubled!!!
Fly in the ointment: college education for grown children. Tuition rates are ridiculously high. Two year community college then transfer to in-state public university recommended. Low income gets Pell Grants and scholarships. Agree that Net Worth, not income beyond the norm is the way to go. Paul Newman drove a beat up VW beetle full of dents. Warren Buffet lives in the house that his parent’s owned. Happy men, widely respected for their generosity. Plan ahead, cover every base, think of worse possible case scenarios, then retire early if you can. I had a neighbor who rolled the dice at full retirement age (66) and died at 68. Very sad. The longer you work in a stressful occupation (and most are stressful) the shorter your total lifespan. That’s why police and firemen retire at 50.

Srob
Srob
7 years ago
Reply to  Poppypbr

Poppypbr congrats on your retirement and more fulfilling lifestyle!

Quick question–Does having a large net worth negatively impact your kids’ ability to get pell grants and scholarships? Or do they just look at your income?

Poppypbr
Poppypbr
7 years ago
Reply to  Srob

Primarily they look at your income. If you own a home outright (I do), you should classify real estate taxes and homeowner’s insurance as well as estimated repairs and upkeep as “annual rent/12 mos” that you have to pay (because you do). 401K, IRA’s are not included in the reporting. You should max out 401K, Roth and IRA as much as possible if considering an application for financial aid and if planning on retiring early. Young people who are emancipated from their parents can get more aid but they must be 18 and living apart with proof of rent. Cheapest way to get a college education is work for an employer that has a liberal policy of reimbursing tuition for night school for accredited academic courses without consideration of your occupation. Large hospitals (like Mass General in Boston) have policies like that. I know several married men who got their degrees entirely in night school paid for by their employer. One is an Mechanical Engineer and the other is a Controller of a Fortune 500 Company. After retiring, I bought a second house and rent it out for the cost of the mortgage, taxes, insurance, heat, water, internet. Tenant is ecstatic. Don’t actually need the income. In 15 or 20 years we’ll sell the house we live in and move into the second house, live there for two years and then sell that to maximize our sale of real estate $200,000 deduction per person for each of us (use one for each house). It is wise not to go overboard on cost or size of house or taxes may be due when its sold. Important to have a Living Revocable Trust to protect Net Worth Assets from lawsuits from institutions or individuals. Put your children’s name on the deed and they inherit when you die with no will, no probate and no taxes. Inheritance tax starts at $5.25million in Net Worth. 401K and IRA get distributed by your beneficiary designation. If you have extra money, consider buying actual shares of stock by companies that pay a dividend. If your tax rate is low (23% or less) your dividends will not be taxed. Try to stay under the tax radar of $35,000 and live with quality, not quantity. $3000/month for two people in a paid up home easily covers all the bases if you adopt free hobbies and not Country Clubs and excessive travel. Before you die, transfer the shares to the kids. No taxes, You didn’t receive any money for them and they are not compelled to sell them, if they are smart.

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago

I found my first gray hair at 26 — the year in which I started residency. At 41, the sides are getting that salt & pepper look and in the last couple years have noticed some thinning up top. It’s been a very gradual but progressive change.

Could retiring early reverse the trend? Only one way to find out!
-PoF

Dollar Habits
7 years ago

I, for one, anxiously await your report on whether or not early retirement halts the progression. At 30, my hair is going the way of the buffalo. My forehead is apparently now a fivehead.

Srob
Srob
7 years ago

That is great that you have been so diligent PoF. Kudos to keeping your spending at 60-70k. Does that include your mortgage payments? You have prepared well and deserve to retire if you want. I think that it would be an awesome experience for your family to take some time to travel. A real Spanish immersion would be such a great opportunity for your kids! Learning spanish plus international living experience would be life-changing for them.

I am a 40 yo physician myself. I have thought about retiring early but don’t see it on the horizon anytime soon. We spend a bit too much, about 110k/yr including 25k/yr in mortgage payments. We have 20x annual spending saved in investments plus 100k home equity. We have 7 kids and pay a lot to keep them in sports/music/activities etc. I also worry about education/wedding expenses down the road in an early retired scenario with our current investment income. Plus long-term travel or leisure would drive my wife nuts I think. She is a very high energy goal oriented person that wants to be doing something she feels is useful all the time.

You could always return to work part time if you get bored. An added layer of security is that you have your blog to insulate you against boredom and probably some income to help with unforeseen expenses. I will be interested to hear about your journey as an early retired doc.

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago
Reply to  Srob

Good to hear from you, Srob!

I would say you’re doing incredibly well, yourself, and if an early retirement does appeal to you, you’ll be able to afford it relatively soon. Spending $85,000 a year for a family of NINE (exclusive of mortgage) is not at all too much. Given we’re a family of four, that’s equally if not more frugal than us.

To answer the question, I am debt-free, and have no mortgage payments. I sold some investments to buy our current home with cash, snagging a nice home for under $300,000 in a low cost of living area.

If you’d like to follow along, I’ll be sharing my story before, and after retirement @ physicianonfire.com. Well, not after retirement. Then I’ll be six feet under. But after I retire — that I’ll be writing about.

Cheers!
-PoF

Mike
Mike
7 years ago

If you quit work and then change your mind later on and want to do it again, will you be able to go right back to it or will you be considered stale and unemployable?

Smart Money MD
Smart Money MD
7 years ago
Reply to  Mike

Not to answer for PoF, but you can get rusty really quickly if you stopped practicing medicine for a while. I see this in doctors who become full-time administrators–they probably aren’t viable clinicians unless they’re figured out a way to continue medical work.

Would you want your cardiothoracic surgeon to do your open-heart bypass if he hasn’t done one in two years? ;-)

Mike
Mike
7 years ago
Reply to  Smart Money MD

Yes, this is what I expected to be the case; perhaps PoF should consider this as one of his counter-arguments as well.

Curt Morrison, MD, FACC, CFA
Curt Morrison, MD, FACC, CFA
7 years ago
Reply to  Smart Money MD

I left cardiology (to be a healthcare equity analyst) for 13 years before returning to practice, albeit non-invasive upon return.

While working as an equity analyst in Chicago I learned of an anesthesiologist who had been away for 10 years before returning. She arranged a supervised practice for a period of time before returning to independent work.

This isn’t necessarily easy, but you can be confident of success if you are determined.

Curt Morrison, MD, FACC, CFA
Curt Morrison, MD, FACC, CFA
7 years ago

“Worth it” to leave medicine, or to return?

Jon
Jon
7 years ago

So I would say don’t retire for your kids.

By retiring early you are really going to be cheating your kids out of a lot of their potential. They will lose access to internships that you can help them easily get to build their resume. That could deny them invaluable letters of recommendation that would have helped them get into prestigious universities, get prestigious scholarships and even get into career fields they would want to go into (especially if it’s medicine).

One of my old roommates wanted to break into oil and gas and her dad used to work in the field but retired early in his 40s and that pushed her to not being able to get internships and pushed her into retail rather than building her resume with internships in her chosen field and eventually caused her pushed her to get a different degree because of the lack of connections. Had she stayed the course and did get a job she would have been hired at a much lower starting salary too due to lack of experience (internships do boost your starting salary a lot in engineering – not sure how much it helps in medicine). Sure you can get jobs without connections but as a parent I feel you should do everything in your power to help your kids get jobs that make them A) productive members of society B) not leeching off you – meaning you want them to get a well paying job and learning the value of the dollar.

I would do everything in your power to ensure they get established in their career before retiring. I know I sure would have loved my parents to have been able to get me internships (I got them but it took extreme determination). Not all kids have that drive, so why not try and improve the chances that all your kids can get there foot in the door. So my vote is that you work part time rather than retire until your kids first get their jobs. In addition, relocating your kids gives them less exposure to social connections and developing their communication skills with their peers. I am highly against causing anything that I think could lower my kids chance of success when I could pave the way for them. 200k for 529 may not even be enough. A top tier undergrad can cost 100-200k total, then graduate programs can cost another 200k. You have to ask yourself where do you want you kids place to be in society? If you have the means I would do everything I could to ensure money isn’t their limiting factor to success.

I’ve just seen situations like yours with numerous people I know and I feel their parents really hurt them by retiring early and seen peers who could have crushed it turn out to be flakes so just trying to help ensure you don’t screw your kids over.

Also, my mom retired in her early 40s and she regretted it. She could never get back into the field she wanted to later on when she just wanted to work for fun and it made her extremely sad. She had less influence in helping us kids professionally (although my dad still does work).

Also from my grandparents point of view, my grandpa retired as a big time 1% in the 60s and he said his biggest regret was not working longer to get more money because near the end he just wished he had more (he had much more than what your target goal is). So everything in my experiences from lots of people from people in their 100s to millennials I feel it’s a really bad move for you to do that. This is coming from someone whose parents made him earn every dollar he has, had to pave out his own career, no help with college etc, but still most who I’ve seen in similar situations didn’t succeed like I did. So just trying to ensure maximum probability of their success in society. Just my 2 cents.

Happy to elaborate on anything you need more convincing on, but remember: do it for the kids ;)!

Jon
Jon
7 years ago

He retired with 8 figures in equivalent buying power of today’s dollars. He lived a decent lifestyle his entire life but what got him was the market crash a few years ago when he was in his 90s (I think, I don’t know his full financial situation just know he’s), but he’s still fine just not as fine as he’d like because he used his portfolio for income vs growth. But he just told me his only regret was not just working a few more years for that easy money when it was easy to have because he had no idea he’d live well past 100. He’s lived modestly his whole life, in sub 200k houses, and well below his means, but you just never know what the future holds. Plus look at all the reports out there in the world, lot of target ROI are being lowered to 6% over the next decade, so just need to be cautious.

See for you Sam, you’re still out hustling and developing connections. That can still prove beneficial for your kid(s). POR said he’s going to travel and become more nomadic which could lose those connections as he would transition out of his professional career. It just comes down to how you manage your life when/if you retire though. For some of my friends, all of the ones who got into our med school in the city I live in everyone had connections to get those slots, I don’t particularly think they worked too hard, had profiles anywhere near my friends who didn’t have connections and got in/didn’t get in (speaking to them all and inquiring about their profiles out of curiosity). So it just comes down to what side of the fence do you want your kids to be on? Personally, I want to give my children the ability to make a career and living as opposed to just give them money that they won’t value so to me it’s a priority to have connections that they can leverage rather than give them massive trust funds and they don’t value what I slaved over getting myself. I want to give them the tools to grow my empire I’ve built, not shrink it. That’s my mindset though, perhaps others differ.

I agree with the tennis, but unless you leverage your knowledge and show the parents that you have your other skills/knowledge I think that those connections will be less beneficial to you. You really have to try to join some sort of network or “boys club” to really help them. Those parents will all be friends because of their kids, but if you’re just their coach you don’t necessarily get the same interactions to really become close with them (i.e. kids birthday parties). I developed great relationships with my track, soccer, tennis, xc, etc. coaches but my parents not so much. My parents like the coaches and respect them highly but they never had the same relationships as with parents of my friends that I hung out with or their coworkers. So you really need to try and leverage a way get connected with those families to truly see the benefits of knowing them. To me, your main benefit is getting to teach a sport you love though!

I agree, you don’t need to just spend time with kids to help them get ahead. For me personally, my parents are my best friends but you really need to ensure your kid can develop their independence (be able to accomplish tasks on their own without hand holding) so they can be successful in the real world when you aren’t there to do their job for them. So you need to instill work ethic, help them develop social skills with their peers, and not limit their opportunities because you could have had connections that could have helped them get to where they want to be personally and professionally. At the end of the day most places just look at your resume and what it says, so you either helped them check boxes and look super impressive or you didn’t. It’s just developing a winning algorithm that builds your resume to be the ideal candidate with the correct skills that others desire. Lots of kids don’t start thinking about real jobs until senior year of college, I have been working at tech companies since I was 16. Who do you think has it easier at graduation? My parents wanted me working in professional environments young. So I went out and got the jobs because of stellar grades, this gave me mentors in the field who could guide me, mentor me, give me stellar letters of recommendations. These mentors turned into invaluable connections that helped get me a full ride into undergrad because of their letters of recommendations. Then the scholarships and their letters of recommendations and my grades got me into one of the most prestigious tech companies in the world, who then paid my graduate program upon graduating and employed me with a millennial 1% salary right out of school. It’s a rubber band effect. Plus, working in those environments gets you surrounded by motivated workers young who inspire you to push yourself and never settle. It’s amazing what your peers can do for you. So don’t sell your kids short, get them in the right environments building their profile as young as possible so they can succeed.

Jon
Jon
7 years ago

Well he’s now in his 100s and has to be more conservative to ensure everything lasts vs. 100% knowing for sure. Plus you want to still leave inheritances etc. Plus it’s not like work is really that hard on us. If you know you’re stuff, you go to work and get paid to do easy work, because you know how to do it. It’s just a matter of trading time for money…

Your situation is more unique then, you more implied just by being the coach you’d get the connections when in reality you’ll get them from the tennis club (in that context). Plus you appear to be doing it for entertainment rather than a job to make a quick buck. Lets face it, is 4500 going to make a huge difference in your life? If you make a ton, that’s chump change (but still accepted to build that NW ;) ).

I wouldn’t say I have an underdog mentality, rather a realistic mentality. I’m really smart, but not the smartest person. I have to make my own connections and don’t have an empire for my parents to just give me so the only way to set myself apart is to outwork everyone and be the best positive influence I can be. Help everyone in the office, volunteer to do everything I have the skills to do etc. This has helped me continue to climb because I want to join the top ranks. So it’s just a matter of analyzing their resumes and roadmap and trying to replicate their successes into my own. No need to reinvent the wheel.

Yeah, I see what you’re saying on the schools there. But from my experience private schools are a waste of money. I went to the best public school in my state and I’d say everyone I know that went to my free highschool out perform the private school kids that spent 100k+ on their hs + another 60k+ for middle school. They pissed away all that money, and make less than me and my public school friends. Plus we all got into the Stanfords, MIT, Harvard, etc. at similar rates to them. Then at the same uni’s we were actually more prepared because my school was rigorous full of hundreds of overachievers like myself. If you want to be successful you push yourself, and you learn material from books, internet and teachers. The private school students tend to be a lot more kicked back and relaxed (lot of good friends went to them as well as my sister). So it depends what kind of environment you want your kid in. I’d rather put that 200k from k-12 into a college, masters and mba program + living expenses for them if they didn’t get scholarships in which case they can use it to buy a house or investment property or fund their kids schooling.

But everyone I know at my school has been highly successful so that’s my experience. Friends that went to less rigorous public high schools weren’t as well off because they hung with crowds that didn’t push them. My friends and I all push each other to be bigger and better constantly to improve ourselves… and I wouldn’t trade those experiences for anything. That’s the crowd, you still need the resume to accomplish the tasks though. Which relates back to the earlier comments on why I feel physician should still work to give his kids those opportunities to maximize their potential.

Fellow anesthesiologist
Fellow anesthesiologist
7 years ago

Hi PoF, fellow anesthesiologist here.

I love Financial Samurai. Every article is so pertinent to my situation.

At age 45 I have finally take the plunge into semi-retirement. Since I am a few years ahead of you, let me give you my perspective.

During my 40th birthday I was jumping off a boat in the Mediterranean, and swimming in the ocean, and contemplating doing a triathlon. Over the last 5 years I started to develop one nagging joint pain after another. Last year I herniated a lumbar disc, and now I cannot even run 10 minutes because of hip pain.

Last January I developed an episode of A-fib after a poor night of sleep and 3 glasses of wine, and later that year I found out I have pre-diabetes. Pre-diabetes is easy to control if I can exercise, but difficult when you have back and hip pain. So no alcohol, no carbs, and I lost some weight, but then developed orthostatic hypotension. What the???

Is this all stress related? Possibly. Sure there is one old anesthesiologist in my group in his late 60s who still takes Cardiac calls, and in good health, but you have to be honest with yourself. As one poster stated, listen closely to your body.

For many anesthesiologist we are in a chronic high adrenaline, high cortisol state. Which was fine when we were younger. Our type A personality convinced ourselves that we can take on any challenge. We were proud to be up 36 hours without sleep. As I got older, possibly due to decline in testosterone, I noticed that my body does not seem to handle stress as well. Maybe it is just me.

Unfortunately I live in a high cost west coast city, and cannot retire like you ;) But I have chosen the part-time path. It was a difficult pill to swallow since part-time work does not mean proportionally decreased income. Usually it is disproportionately lower. But like anything, you just need a shift in perspective.

Right now I am sitting in a surgery center with a lot of downtime and will probably only make $300 today. But it is ok. It covers my expenses without touching my nest egg.

Most anesthesiologist do not tie their identity to their job. Many of us chose anesthesia for the flexibility and the freedom. That is what I have finally come to terms with. My previous partnership track job really tied me down with very inflexible vacation schedule. If we want to be identified with our title, we would have become cardiologists or pulmonologists.

So my suggestion is to take the plunge. Our health can take a drastic turn in our 40s-50s. As you know an once of prevention is worth more than an ounce of cure.

If you can still have plenty of vacation time, work on your own terms when you want and when you don’t want, few hours in the traffic, get plenty of regular sleep and exercise, not feel much stress, then sure by all means keep working. If not, retire or dial back.

I chose part-time because I cannot afford to retire, but also to keep up my skill set. As you know anesthesia is like a sport. Much of it is based on rhythm, reflexes, and instinct. If I take too much time off it will be hard to come back.

Funny how many physicians responded to this thread. Really shows you the burn out rate among doctors. I certainly will follow you blog, and try to figure out where in the US I can retire for $70,000 a year fora family of 4 :)

Best of luck!

Fellow anesthesiologist

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago

Glad to hear from you, fellow anesthesiologist, and I’m bummed to hear about your recent run of bad luck in the health department. Or, as you suggest, it may not be luck so much as years of a stressful job finally taking their toll.

Either way, I’m glad you’ve found a way to work a more favorable schedule. I’m planning to do something similar for a year or two after much contemplation as a transition of sorts to a more complete retirement. Fortunately, I believe I’ll be able to do so with a drop in income that’s directly in proportion to the decreased workload. Look for a blog post from me later this year on that.

Cheers!
-PoF

KJ
KJ
7 years ago

I retired at 45 and now I’m back in the workplace. (And not for monetary reasons.) For five years I had a lot more freedom than most people my age, and a pretty darn good life. I frequented the beach daily, played tennis here and there, enjoyed long hikes, and dined out several days a week for both lunch and dinner. We moved. I renovated a few properties. But yes, I still got bored. And lord knows, I didn’t want to admit it! I’d heard over and over again, from everyone and their mother, “You’re too young to retire?”

Maybe I was. I don’t know.

In any case, here’s a quick list of the challenges I faced, every situation on it being very personal, of course, and noted in hindsight with 20/20 vision.

*Spouse not retired (this was a big one)
*Travel…without my spouse?
*A career = pay. Housewife = …….. Are those crickets I hear?
*Everyone else my age works!
*Adult children tend to have their own lives
*Even dogs grow tired of daily walks on the beach
*Tennis partners are hard to come by–free partners, that is. I could play five days a week with my instructor…for a fee. : )

All kidding aside, while they weren’t the best five years of my life, I wouldn’t have had it any other way. My journey brought me to where I am today: learning a new business, surrounded by brilliant and passionate people, and feeling productive (and busy!) again.

I’m a worker bee.

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago
Reply to  KJ

Nothing wrong with being a worker bee.

“*Even dogs grow tired of daily walks on the beach”

When even the dog finds your walks wearisome, you must really be overdoing it. My wife’s full time job has been to take care of our kids and be available when I can’t be. She’s 110% on board with our plan, and would like to hurry it along if possible.

Like Sam, I intend to continue writing and that may be enough to keep me busy on top of the hobbies that I’ve shelved or struggled to maintain over the years.

I appreciate your perspective as a former early retiree. I can’t guarantee it’s for me until I experience it, and I’ll have contingent plans in place to return to the workforce if I discover that’s where I want to be.

Cheers!
-PoF

IBFRee @ saveinvestbecomefree
IBFRee @ saveinvestbecomefree
7 years ago

Nice guest post PoF! I do have one to add but I know you can already crush this one. Reason #9 Your significant other is not on-board yet. I’m in a very similar situation as you except for #9. I don’t want to retire until it’s an exciting and positive thing for the whole family. So I forwarded your guest post to my wife as part of the master plan to get her excited about the idea of early freedom in life. She still thinks this must be impossible/risky despite the math (we’re at a 2% SWR right now). Thanks for your help :)

Physician on FIRE
Physician on FIRE
7 years ago

That’s a USWR, IBFree! Ultra-safe withdrawal rate.

If you can’t sell her on the safety of an early retirment at this point, you clearly didn’t earn your money in sales. ;)

Cheers!
-PoF

Grant
Grant
7 years ago

Of course you should retire early. You have clearly been busting your butt and have probably worked harder than most people do in a lifetime. Getting into med school, getting through med school, working as a resident, paying off debt, and saving like a champ all while working crazy hours and raising a family. Most people would have started earning that big income and decided it was time to reward themselves but you stayed disciplined.

Best part is if you decide that work gave your life meaning or just made you happier the door doesn’t permanently close on going back.

Wall Street Physician
Wall Street Physician
7 years ago

Reason #5a: You enjoy your job too much to leave it.

Reason #9: You have an identity crisis, and can’t imagine yourself not working as a physician.

Not saying these apply to you, but these are possible reasons why some doctors may choose not to retire early.

The Green Swan
The Green Swan
7 years ago

The boredom factor is one I’ve thought about, but would not have any worries about. It’s great that you have hobbies and things that can keep you buys. And I’m talking fun things, not chores or projects that you have to get done, but don’t really want to do. With that in mind I, of course, say retire early! You’ve put your time in, made good money and now it’s time to enjoy your family more.